Hi Tony
I think what has been uncovered here is the minefield, which is the English language. You suggest I should include the word 'critsism' instead of 'critique' when they have very different meanings, one negative and possibly offensive and the other positive and, hopefully, helpful. You then fall into a similar trap yourself by using the word 'either' when, I'm sure you meant to say 'neither' in your last sentence.
Upon such misunderstandings rests the willingness of members to give of themselves and the ultimate success, or otherwise, of the forum.
All the best
Brian